Sunday, March 7, 2010

Another Dating Hall of Shame Entry

It was a gorgeous weekend here in Boston. To bad it went by so fast. One minute it was Friday night now it is Sunday night. Saturday, I was supposed to meet Swarmy Match Guy at Bar 10 in Boston. I didn't think I had anything nice to wear so I spent Saturday shopping. I bought a cute red and black top at Lord & Taylor. I have to say that they have one of the better plus size sections I have seen. I also stopped at Lane Bryant. I tried on one of the boyfriend shirts, a buttoned down shirt. When I looked at myself in the mirror, I asked myself when they baby was due. It made me look pregnant, which is not the look I was going for. Pink and orange were in full force in the store. Both colors look terrible on me. It disappointed me. After shopping, I got ready with the new shirt, some jeans and some brown knee high boots. I was looking good! I was pretty nervous walking to the bar. I saw Swarmy Match Guy at the end of the bar. He invited me to sit down. I ordered a glass of pinot noir. He already had a glass of wine. He didn't talk very much. I was nervous trying to keep the conversation going. He suggested that we move to a table, which we did. After he said down, he said "Why don't you come closer." I was fine where I was sitting. He then put his arm around my waist and went to kiss me. I was like no. He then backed off. When the waitress came to ask if we wanted another drink, he said, "No." He told me he was meeting a friend at another bar. I was like, great have a good night. I got up and left. I was happy to get out of there. I was not at ease. I was not happy that he grabbed me after meeting me for the first time. He did not want to mess with my redheaded temper. I was happy to be home. I fell asleep by 11. Today, I went on my first long walk since the fall. It felt awesome to have some sun. I walked down to Wollaston Beach. Lots of people must have felt the same way, because it was busy there. Lots of dog walkers, motorcycle gang members, who I wondered if they were like Sons of Anarchy, couples, creepy older men sitting in cars, it was a busy day at Wollaston Beach. This may be a spring teaser, but I like it.


  1. Highly inappropriate. Sounds like a real perv who is also socially awkward and clueless about the dating scene. I guess the one positive thing about it is that at least you found out his game right away, instead of wasting time on future dates.

    You should post his Match username here, as a warning to other women!

  2. This shouldn't be in your Hall of Shame, it should be in his! Ewww!

  3. He sounds like a creep!

    - Lisa


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